This isn’t a blog to brag about it but I would like this important post to serve as a reminder to what the ethos of That’s The Spot is.
As you may have seen on my social media, I am now officially a published author! It was the book launch on Wednesday and some of us authors brought along the things that we sold, including me. A couple of my fellow business members had brought a friend along who was interested in looking at what I had. She was very quick to buy the Rock Chick!
She wasn’t afraid of being seen buying it, she asked me the right questions, and as a result of this, it encouraged another businesswoman to buy a toy from me too – she was in a space in which we were talking openly about sexual pleasure and she felt safe and supported in the decision she made in buying a vibrator. I sensed that this was a big move for her, although I may be wrong. This was in the space of 5 minutes – everyone was relaxed about it and it wasn’t treated as dirty or embarrassing in the slightest.
This Rock Chick woman is the kind of person I want every woman to be able to be – uninhibited, confident in their sexuality, not repressed or ashamed in any way. My company is exactly about this – helping women reclaim their body and their sexual power – and I have found a woman who exemplifies this perfectly. What made this even more special is that she is a bit ‘older’ (only a bit!) and in that age bracket of women who may have been brought up to think that masturbation was wrong.
It doesn’t stop there though – when we were at our meeting, and being a women’s business club, some of us were asked to show everyone our handbags (I didn’t show my rucksack!). Lo and behold, my no.1 lady stands up, shows her bag and it’s content and very nonchalantly pulls our her new vibrator – to a room of 60 women – and tells us that is her newest purchase, how AMAZING! Everyone roared with laughter, but I wonder how many of the other women would have had the confidence to be able to do what she had done. This lady is bringing it out of the bedroom and normalising it – which is EXACTLY what That’s The Spot is doing! My mantra is that knowledge is power and with more power we are enlightened and liberated!
There is more to this story, as it gets better and better! I shall write the rest of it this weekend, but to those that think they are ‘too old’ to enjoy vibrators or those that don’t want to entertain the thought of talking out loud about their body and their sex life, I urge you to reconsider this. This woman was vibrant, happy and a joy to be around – I am not saying that it is all down to her confidence in showing a vibrator to 60 women, but there’s a lot to be said about being open and honest and not worrying so much about what other people think.
This lady helped inspire 4 other women to come to me after the meeting – one has never owned a vibrator before, but she does now! Another found the confidence to tell me that she was ready to have a proper chat with me about her sex life. During the meeting, I had another member ask me to show her some of my toys, and of course there was the other lady I spoke about earlier.
I want this to inspire confidence in you to come to me and take that step into the unknown, explore this world and be happier as a result of it!
I shall publish the other part of this blog this weekend, but for now, don’t be afraid – get in touch with me – firstname.lastname@example.org and we can chat or organise a sex toy soiree for women over the age of 50 x