About the blog

Welcome to That’s The Spot!

We are a company founded on the basis that everyone deserves sexual pleasure. We feel it is (or should be) a normal and healthy part of everyone’s lives. If you are looking to make an informed decision on what sex toys to buy, you are in the right place. Have a browse in the shop where you will find detailed descriptions of each item, with the aim of giving you as much information as possible to enable you to buy the right toy for you. As part of our service as a sex positive company we are here to answer your questions,  so don’t be afraid to get in touch. You can email the team on hello@thatsthespot.co.uk if you need clarification on anything.

Who’s in Charge

That’s The Spot is owned by Sex Educator and Pleasure Advisor Rhi Kemp-Davies,. You can find their articles in Diva, Planet Nation and the Kiiroo Blog. They have also written an episode for Pillow Play and is working closely with OMGYes to promote women and their partners to better understand their genitals.

If you’re still not sure what to buy – especially considering that the best toys can sometimes be expensive, Rhi offers sex toy consultations for individuals or couples. If you live in or around Cardiff, she can visit you in the comfort of your own home with a selection of the toys you are interested in and give you the chance to have a proper look at everything – if it is a vibrator, you can see how strong it can vibrate, see how wide/long it is, see how loud/quiet it is. If it is a dildo, you can see exactly what kind of size it is – same thing for a strap on harness – does it fit? What is the exact colour?! If it is kegel eggs, you can see how heavy they are! It is a great opportunity to ‘meet’ the toys. As well as having Rhi there to and show you them and chat about them, it also takes away the embarrassment you may have about going into a sex toy shop and it is done from the comfort and familiarity of your own home with an expert.

If you live outside of Cardiff, Rhi can offer a Skype conversation at £10 per half hour or £5 for 15 minutes. To organise this, use the contact form on the main website.

*be aware that Rhi is a professional and will not tolerate any advances* This service promotes openness and education, not an opportunity to be inappropriate.

If you want to make a night of it with friends, Rhi can visit your home for a Sex Toy Soiree! It could be compared to other sex toy parties but these Soirees are renowned for being educational as well as relaxing. They won’t bring lingerie and the night will not be full of ways to ‘titillate your partner’. It is more about you and what you want, and the chance to learn a lot more about yourself without feeling awkward, or picked on.  They will always have the latest in toy technology and a range of prices and there will be stock available to buy on the night. Rhi is happy to cater the soiree to what the group wants.

That’s the Spot has a regular blog and you can follow us on social media. Check out the links at the bottom of the page. If you are more interested in the geeky, sex education side of it, visit their Patreon Page  to become a part of her inner circle and be the first to see her new material.

If you are still unsure as to whether you would like to take advantage of these services, check out the testimonials and also her experience so far.

Contact us here.